I can already tell from your writing and thought process that you're a smart kid. Being skeptical of anything you read is very important, as there's infinite amounts of garbage floating about on the internet.

I've been part of the manosphere for the better part of the last decade, and trust me, it has absolutely nothing to do with hating women. If you read through the sidebar, you'll see we even have a term for angry guys: Anger phase. This is the phase that most guys hit after realizing that society has lied to them, and abused their goodwill. The problem is the damage to the individual man is very real, and will rightly cause massive amounts of anger. For example, think of a man who married a woman who swore undying love to him who suddenly finds out that she's cheated on him and wants a divorce. He then loses his kids, his home, and everything he's worked for in the past decade. Or, for a case closer to your situation, a student who has a drunken hookup in college, only to find out he's been accused of rape by the girl who regrets having a one night stand. In both these cases, there is no sympathy for the male, and he will suffer massive consequences in his life due to no fault of his own.

The core of RedPill is understanding how men and women interact, and how variations of policy and culture can incentivize constructive or destructive behavior. In the west, we have been vilifying masculinity for the past 50 odd years since the sexual revolution, so it's to be expected that we've arrived here. The most fascinating part about all this, is that the current system actually hurts women the most, because it is they who ultimately lose out on a fulfilling life. We men are durable, and we're designed to take emotional and physical punishment. Our ancestors survived far worse, so as long as we band together and understand our environment and exert effort, we will succeed.

On a less philosophical point, the science behind human behavior is absolutely fascinating, and underpins all of RP. I actually discovered the fundamentals of RP before this sub existed by reading a few key books on evolution, which elegantly explained everything that forms the foundation of RP philosophy. I'd recommend reading The Selfish Gene and The Red Queen to start if you're interested in the science behind RP. It's quite a fascinating subject.

And finally regarding cars, the choice you have to make is RWD vs AWD. RWD is more fun, cheaper, lighter and will teach you a lot about driving at the expense of overall performance. AWD though, is faster all things considered, but heavier.

The 370Z and the BRZ are both great RWD cars. The BRZ is cheaper I believe, and lighter, but less powerful. The WRX is more convenient with four doors, and better in winter weather.

My advice: go with whatever you can afford and whatever you'll have the most fun in. Test drive both once you're close to making the call and you'll know.

For me though, cars are just fun toys. My real passion is motorcycle racing on closed tracks. This sport teaches you more about being a man than anything else. Just don't ever ride on the road.

Good luck and have fun