I realize a lot of you already see the logic in this and are already nodding your heads. The problem is, a lot of you fuckers tend to crumble when a woman youâre trying to have sex with who is Super Hot⢠or Not Like The Rest⢠strongly suggests (or even demands) that you two have an event date for a first/second date. You know damn well you shouldnât agree to it, but Damn Sheâs So Hot⢠and She Might Get Mad At Me If I Say No Then I Wonât Be Able To Tap That Assâ¢. So like a pussy, you agree to it. And then, two to four dates later, having never had sex, she ghosts your ass and you never see her again, then you send me a whiny email and ask me what you did wrong (when you already know, you idiot).
Yes, some women ask for event dates. No, you canât do them. Just say something like, âYou know, on Thursday Iâm going to be a little tired after work. Letâs just meet up at the XYZ Bar and have a quiet drink.â Be polite, but be strong. About 80% the time, she wonât push it and sheâll agree to it.
Yes, about 20% of the time, particularly if sheâs over age 33, sheâll get a little pushy, and even offended. If this is the case, delete her number and move on. This is not a woman who is at all interested in having sex with a new man quickly. If you agree to her event date, youâll just waste a lot of time and money and then not have sex with her, instead of cutting her loose now and saving yourself the aggravation.
Read that paragraph again because itâs important. A lot of you guys think that by giving into high-ASD demanding Dominants, youâll get laid. No, you wonât. Youâll just waste a lot of time and cash while not having any sex. When you say no to a woman who demands an event date pre-sex, you donât lose; you win, even if you donât get laid (which you probably wonât at that point anyway, since as soon as a woman demands an event date pre-sex, your odds have already gone down regardless of what your response is).
Once you achieve Lock-In with a new woman by having sex with her two times on two different occasions, then event dates are okay if you deem her to be a MLTR (not a FB). If she then asks for an event date, you are free to say yes if you wish. Sheâs proven she likes having sex with you and will likely be around sexually for a prolonged period of time, so sheâs earned the right to have event dates with you, assuming thatâs something you enjoy.
By the way, the same thing could be said of dinner dates as well. Itâs just that event dates are even worse. Reserve those only for women youâve had sex with twice, and donât give into any woman who demands otherwise.