Men usually have sex for one reason and one alone: he fancies the girl. That’s it. Certainly in my case. Unlike blue pill betas I look at gigolos and male strippers with disgust rather than awe. There are few things I can imagine worse than having sex with an unattractive woman or cavorting around like a clown to a load of vile hootering ‘n’ hollering hen party slags. Seriously, I’d rather flip burgers for minimum wage than get the £75ph these jokers make. Degenerates aside, men have sex for one reason. In contrast, consider this list of reasons girls have given me after I banged them:
- Felt trapped and stale in long-term relationship. Wanted something new and exciting
- Anglophile with fantasy of dating English gentleman
- Seeking to align with a knowledgeable and wise man to guide her life
- Used to controlling men and fascinated by the challenge of seeing if she can do the same to me
- So frustrated after years of avoiding sex because the men are inadequate, ready to jump at the chance as soon as it comes
- On a short holiday and looking for adventure
- Engaged to be married in a traditional country and wants one last taste of freedom
- Good friends with me for a long time and thinking of taking a souvenier memory home when her visa expires
- Loves being dominated against her will so thirsting to be taken
- On holiday out of sight from an extremely restrictive home country so took a rare chance at hedonism
- Wanted to have a threesome and I was the only available man above her attraction threshold
- Unbelieveably turned on by me specifically
- Totally inexperienced and wanted to be broken in by an experienced man
- Boyfriend was out of town and the unexpected chance for consequence-free variety presented itself
- Been reading Fifty Shades Of Grey and on the lookout for someone fitting the bill of her own Christian Grey
- Stressed out from overwork and not getting a chance to meet anyone
- Feeling alone and unappreciated in a foreign country so looking for someone’s life to attach to
- Friends cajoling her to get an English boyfriend
- Never had an SNL before and wondered what it’s like
This is not to deny basic principles that girls only have sex with men who meet their attraction criteria and with whom they feel sufficiently comfortable. However, it’s never as simple as “she likes me”. Men use sex for the physical pleasure and for the psychological validation. Women have many many reasons because it’s a tool to them. Sometimes those reasons are simply to secure positive emotions (or suppress negative emotions) but often they are incomprehensible.