Being butthurt means that you are emotionally affected and showing it in some way, whether verbal or by body language. This can include acting cold and robotic (i.e. shutting down your emotions) and not merely a display of negative emotions. It is a response to the situation that indicates you are upset by her conduct even a little bit; this can be as simple as not talking as much the next day when she shoots you down for sex the night before.
Women are particularly good at sensing butthurt. Conversely, "not butthurt" is an ongoing presentation of your best self - living in your frame - without regard for her behaviors toward you.
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