So I was traveling abroad and met this pretty decent girl. She was average looking but I thought we got along well and after months of traveling alone I was craving for company of any kind.
When I went back to home we had a LDR thing going on for a couple of months, she visited me for two weeks and generally it seemed to go okay. No big attraction but I didn't care much about it, I cared about having someone close. She wanted to move into my country to study at Uni, so I of course started helping her out in all the ways I could, monetarily and otherwise, which was completely unnecessary. She is not a third world gold digger.
She eventually got enrolled in as an exchange student in the University for this semester. Also she managed to get a dorm, though I said she could live on my place for starters.
Sometime later, but before moving, she noticeably started turning cold. That was the obvious red flag, but I didn't take it seriously because I thought this is the sort of girl I don't really have to keep my guard up with.
I kept thinking the rough patch would pass at the latest when she got here. Of course it didn't. I went to help her on moving in to her dorm and help her to buy the necessities. I'm embarrased as hell to admit, but I even took a unpaid day off to do this. How fucking stupid was I? After that, all discussion subsided. No talk of meeting or anything, because she was "busy and so on". Lots of pictures of her going to parties and touring in the city with other exchange students started to appear almost daily, however. Her relationship status in FB, which was previously hidden, was suddenly made public and marked as "single", even though she insisted just a month earlier that we had a relationship.
This was way too late to realize that I had been taken advantage of. She had ripped me completely dry, emotionally. It's a matter of days or a couple of weeks the most when pics of her posing with some university smart guys start to appear. I just hope they get taken advantage as well, if they're as dumb as I was.
So here I am, pissed off as can be, my only consolation being able to vent my frustration in reddit.
Fuck it. I was fooled. Never again.
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