I'm 19 (soon 20), a sophomore at a prestigious university. I don't get stellar grades (3.0gpa in premed).. I tend to blame the competition but really I should be working harder. People here are pretty intelligent and I don't think I'm at a school where people tend to "sleep around" that often (Private, religious).

In high school I was a complete beta. Now, I weight lift a lot and have been told I have a very attractive body to women. But, I'm still a virgin. I have had my fair share of drunken make outs but I never really manned up and went further.

This weekend I hooked up with a girl at a party and planned to bring her back to my single. Dry-humping, necking, and everything. All was well until she told me her friends were leaving and she was too. I don't know what I did wrong.. she even brought it up (going back to my room) to me in the first place.

I used to be bitter, but now I am reading more and more on the red pill and just coming to accept the truth. It's all making so much sense to me. Older guys, what would you do if you were 19 again?