I was on a first date with a girl. Text-wise and at first, I had the lead and everything went fine.
At some point though, she just started to make fun of me at no where for some silly reasons, saying that I was wearing gloves, I was a pussy for being cold.
She went on for 3/4 sentences with this, and I had no idea what to answer.
I just stayed silent and asked her if she was done afterward. But then she started again. I feel like I fucked that one up.
Later on, she wanted to stop to smoke a cig. I wanted to keep moving because we were next to workers with power-tools. She just said no, that she doesn't walk and smoke at the same time.
Again, no idea how to deal with this. How to keep the lead when she just drops a blunt no without sounding petty and fighting against it? I have some ideas, but I'd really like some outside input.
I don't really care about her opinion or worry about what she thinks, but I'd like to be able to put a stop to that kind of childish behavior that feels like a shit-test to see if I'm going to accept that kind of shit.
So, what would you do?
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