My dad is a great guy and for the longest time was my idol. He taught me many important things. Since swallowing the red pill however i've noticed, to my dismay, my father is in fact a beta male. He is the quintessential nice guy. I need advice on how to help him.

He is a contracted chef and since leaving his old company he now works for a company owned by women, as the only male in the whole place. Recently he hasn't been receiving shifts, and I can see his is slowly being phased out in favor of female staff. He doesn't seem to notice this. He complains to my mother (who is in a high powered position, she is the breadwinner and makes ~170k), and she tells him he needs to "do what he wants to do, if it's making you miserable do something else". It pains me to my core hearing them have these discussions and my MOTHER having to tell him this. I can hear in her tone she is disgusted by his behavior and general defeatist attitude. Where my father is basically loading his insecurities and misery onto my mother. He tells her he's too old and won't find another job and life is unfair etc etc and my stomach just churns.

He stays at home and cleans while my mother is out working a prestigious corporate job. She comes home to a sparkling clean house and cooked dinner. This is great and all but my parents are both miserable with their relationship. There is no way they can be having sex. The dynamic is repulsive to me and i can't be around it. I can't stand seeing my father at home all day cleaning. He is most definitely depressed.

I don't know how to address this with him. I don't know what to do. His outlook on life is so painfully blue pill, that I can't even bring up the nature of women without him condemning me and telling me "you have alot to learn about women", "you must treat women well" etc etc. It is glaringly obvious why my mother is miserable and why my father is miserable. If they were to divorce i wouldn't even be surprised, if this keeps up i would be shocked if they didn't divorce.

My father truly believes doing things like cooking and cleaning is enough to please my mother. He doesn't take her anywhere. They do nothing. There is no spontaneity. They hardly ever go anywhere and if they do it's a movie once every 3 months. She comes home to a cooked dinner, watches TV and goes to bed 2 hours before him. Every night.

How can my mother stand to be around this? What can i do for my dad? I want to tell him to get a hobby, to make goals for himself and do things while he's not working, keep himself busy, make friends and enjoy his life, but i feel as if this will just insult him and make him even more depressed, having to receive such advice from his SON of all people.

Am i right in assuming their relationship is essentially over, or my mother is cheating on him? I can see my dad trying to balance the dynamic imbalance of him not working by assuming the role of the housekeeper but obviously this is just utterly disgusting to my mother - but he isn't aware of this.

Please help me and my father