Thanks for clicking here, everybody. Before providing me with your wonderful advice, I'd just like to make a note that I am not new to TheRedPill whatsoever and I know my way around pretty well (kill count in the low 30s). I'm writing this because I am very well aware that some things I have done in this situation's story that I am about to write are undoubtedly against TRP advice and rules. I was blessed physically and train competitively 6 times a week, so in my mind, I have a little bit more leeway to bend the rules.

About a month and a half ago I met up with a girl from Tinder at a coffee shop. We had great conversation and learned a lot about each other. 3 months ago, she had just come out of a 5 year relationship. She was the one that broke it off because of constant fights and lack of mutual attraction. She let me know that she is not interested in him at all anymore. After our conversation, we went to her workplace and hung out for 20 mins before her shift started. We hugged for quite a while and there was definitely a good spark.

Luckily, she lives right across from my workplace so we were able to meet up quite easily. A few days later, we met up at my workplace and had a few kisses and just goodbye. The meeting didn't last longer than 5-10 mins.

Something extremely important that I need to mention is that she lives with her mother and sister. Her mother is very possessive and conservative. She is constantly messaging her "where are you, who are you with, etc.". As soon as her curfew time approaches, she gets stormed by calls and msgs from her mother checking up on her.

A few days later, I picked her up from her workplace and parked in a parking lot beside her building. I knew I had about 40 mins to do something before her curfew was up. We started kissing, and decided to go to the back seat. After removing her clothes, she refused to go any further, but quickly changed her mind unexpectedly. She said "if you want it, you're going to have to do it today, otherwise, you'll have to wait until next week". She was indicating that her period was about to start the following day. We ended up banging, and dropped her off home right after.

After that, the texting became a bit slow. I should admit that I lost a bit of interest afterwards, and stopped texting as often. She reciprocated.

Perhaps a few days or a week later, we met again. I picked her up from her home, did some grocery shopping (for my own house) and she tagged along. Afterwards, we went to my house to drop off the stuff and we banged again. Dropped her off home.

Didn't msg her for a few days.

We met up at my workplace again for a few mins (she was with her sister, and she had just come back from work). I asked her to sleep over at my place sometime, and told her I 'wont wait for her much more' if she won't do it.

3-4 days later, I asked her to meet up, and she gave me some excuse.

Waited another couple of days and asked if she's free to meet up. Gave me another excuse (can't remember what it was, either work related or she was meeting a friend).

After a few days, I decided to give it one last try, and asked her to meet up on the exact day. She said she had to go somewhere. On that day, I was at work, so I decided to ask her to drop by after she was done (since it was right by her home). She said 'okay'. After my shift ended, I didn't wait for her anymore so I went and did my own thing. She ended up msging me about 2 hrs after my shift, saying her phone died. I decided to just lay it all out for her and said something along the lines of "if you don't wanna meet up anymore, just let me know because I've met tons of girls, so I don't buy the bullshit excuses."

She said she was genuinely busy and wasn't making excuses. I decided to try out a last card and said "i dropped by your workplace and brought flowers but you weren't there. I was thinking about taking you more seriously." After that message, she did a complete 180 and became all soft. She apologized and said "Omg I didn't know. I had no idea you were thinking seriously. Do you wanna talk about it? Are you free tomorrow?"

So we ended up meeting the following day, talked about it and she told me she was genuinely busy and couldn't meet me because she was looking for a new job. She also said she felt a bit pressured when I told her to drop by after my work ended. I decided to give her one last shot and told her I would stop meeting other girls and give her a shot. She was very happy about it. We went back to my workplace and banged in the office. She went home afterwards.

Few days later, I met up with her at her workplace after her shift ended up and had some ice cream together. We went back to my place and banged. Afterwards, I dropped her off home.

About 2 days we met up and went to her old workplace to pick up her paycheque. We were thinking of going to a park, but decided to go elsewhere. I told her I gotta go home first to pick up my wallet. We ended up just making out and banging again. Afterwards, she went home. We agreed to meet up the following week to go to the movies and have dinner.

Next week, on the day of our plan, after she woke up, she messaged me saying she can't meet up because she has to go meet her friend and help her find a new place to stay (since her friend doesn't speak English well). That was a complete surprise to me because I never expected her to flake again, especially so early in the relationship after having had an argument about flakiness. So I told her i'm not gonna put up with her disrespecting me and not appreciating my time. I told her "i'm not interesting in meeting you anymore". She responded with "Thats fine because I don't think I was ready for a relationship yet." We talked a bit more on the day of, just small talk.

Obviously I broke so many TRP rules up until this point, and I continued to break them, but clearly she is well aware of the fact that I have so many other options and could bang other chicks with a single phone call.

The following day, I told her to come downstairs for a couple of mins to talk and she said she was busy 'preparing for her interview' and helping her friend translate an essay into a different language. The following day she had an interview for a new job, so I told her I'd give her one last try if she agreed to meet up before her interview. This time she said she "didn't like the way I talked down on her and the fact that if she didn't obey me, I would leave her". So I told her that I talked this way because of the fact that I had so little patience for her and from all the shit she has done already. She ended up saying that she also can't meet before her interview tomorrow because she needs to prepare.

I told her "i'm not going to ask you anymore. You have my number, So if you'd like to see me, you can make time and contact me"

3 days passed and nothing from her yet.

Thought?

Waited