Hi,

my "typical" situation is, I meet a girl, I bang her on the 2nd date. It's getting boring. Also, after I bang her on the 2nd date I'm like "OK, we're done" and I stop contacting her for some longer time like week or two.

Recently I started thinking, maybe I do something wrong. I don't feel too much of an affection.

There was that new girl, I met with her for the first time, we played scrabble, had some tea, it was... it was fun. I'm not sure what can I do with her on the 2nd date (perhaps I'll try to bang her, because why do something boring in order to fuck later, if I can fuck earlier). BUT I had that crazy idea, maybe I should "vet" her longer, meet with her a few times and not bang her.

I wonder if this isn't a problem of my general approach, for example. In last year, I met 2 girls that were hot enough for me so I really wanted to bang them (HB "fuckyea"). The rest of the girls are Hb "meh" category. I like playing with them, so I can rehearse TRP stuff (which obviously works), but in general I feel fake, my affection towards them is so-so, and the result of this situations are posts like that.

Per Mark Manson, an average man meets an average girl and has average affection towards her, then they have average sex. Any ideas how can I bring this to some next level? Monk mode? Just ignore and accept and go on with my life? Ideas?