Not technically shitting where you eat. New girl at the front desk staff of my gym drunkenly added me on Instagram and dm’d me her number. I’d seen her a couple times but never even talked to her.

We message a couple times. I tease her for being a creep. Then we bump into each other and talk at the gym a couple times this week. I told her we should get a coffee and she’s down.

I know for a fact she’s going to grad school this winter, so even if shit hits the fan, it will only be awkward for a few months.

My question is - if we go out and hook up, should I tell her either beforehand or afterward something like the following:

“I just wanna set some expectations. We can have a lot of fun but let’s just keep it casual. Since you’re about to move and we still have to share the gym for a few months. Just don’t want it to get weird. So if you’re cool with that, cool. If not, let’s just not.”

I don’t want it to get to a point where she’s pissed at me or something, and now I have to start altering my gym schedule to avoid her.

So what do you think? Am I ok to proceed here? Should I say anything to set expectations?