Apparently I complain a lot?

varrr · 2017-09-16T23:25:29+00:00

Listen to yourself when you talk. Be mindful of what comes out of your mouth. Only complain when you can actually make a change, if it's a comment that doesn't help change the reality of the current situation just refrain from complaining.

For example: you are at a reastaurant and the place is packed and you are waiting too much to get your food. Instead of complaining about the restaurant being packed and the service being slow, just shut the fuck up. In this particular case complaining won't make the service faster. So I guess it comes down to this: If you want to change something just change it. If you can't change something just accept it. Complaining is useless.

Thizzlebot · 2017-09-16T22:23:58+00:00

It's really as simple as thinking before you speak. If what you're about to say is a complaint, then stop, take a breath, and don't fucking say it. You're likely to become more positive as a result, and if not, at least you won't be known as a complainer.

BobbyPeru · 2017-09-17T03:22:33+00:00

First off, you get to decide if you complain too much, not others.

Read, "when I say no I feel guilty"

"No more mr nice guy"

And

"The Subtle art of not giving a fuck."

Title	Apparently I complain a lot?
Author	Thizzlebot
Upvotes	1
Comments	16
Date	September 16, 2017 9:52 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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