Went out with a plate and had great sex after. She stayed at mine as it was late. Next morning she’s all into snuggles and cuddles and shit. I like intimacy and cuddling but only really offer it after sex.

Anyway, after 15 mins of this and her gently resisting my advances I get up, brush my teeth and start showering etc. I didn’t act butt hurt, just withdrew my affection and still spoke to her nicely and as if nothing was up. She 100% knew I wanted to lay the D. Maybe I didn’t try hard enough, but to be honest after 15 mins with my hard dick poking her ass and her still not putting out I couldn’t be bothered.

Anyway she sensed something was up and decided to get an uber home. I already had plans that day so she knew she had to go. She’d already asked me the evening before to come to hers next weekend, for her to make me dinner and then have sex but I told her I would let her know later. (She countered this by saying if I didn’t let her know soon she’d make plans as she doesn’t want to be home alone. Lol)

Question: because she was a little cock tease I am soft nexting her. If I hear nothing from her after several days do I send out a feeler to see if she’s still down for meeting at the weekend? Or do I simply take the mentality of if I hear nothing, move on?

I know this is an autistic post, I’m new to plating and soft nexting chicks. Many posters here say you can initiate contact after the soft next period, others say never make contact again unless she reaches out.