Girl I’ve had sex with a couple times cancels a date tonight because she’s “stressed about not having enough time to plan for her friends birthday tomorrow night.” Which I knew about. So I think there actually is a birthday festivity that needs planning.

Anyway, after she cancels, she tells me she’s free this weekend. I’m not so I tell her that won’t work and we’ll figure it out later. Then she tells me she might be able to hang out for a little tomorrow. I tell her I have plans tomorrow night but might be able to squeeze in a walk or something before.

In hindsight I probably shouldn’t have suggested that, but I’m going away next week and, if I don’t see her tomorrow, it will end up being a while before we see each other again.

I ask her when’s the earliest she can meet up and she says 430 (she usually gets out of work at 7). So my first thought is why the fuck didn’t she just plan this birthday shit tomorrow at 430?

Am I missing something here? Is her behavior explainable? I don’t know what to make of it. Would you guys see her tomorrow?

I haven’t responded since she said she could meet at 430. I can’t even meet until 6. I kinda wanna go on two dates in one night but would I be rewarding shitty behavior?

Hoping you guys can provide some input.