I won't buy her shit and I won't go to her party which she happily invited me to, I'm actually so busy that I won't even see her the entire day, and I do feel some kind of shame because I've actually been a total ass to her lately, I've been ghosting her for approx 8 days so how should I proceed? Should I send a text to her wishing her a happy birthday? Should I proceed with the ghosting?And if I do, how do I handle the massive shit test storm the next days?