Backdrop: I’ve seen this girl maybe four different times and fucker her like five or six times. Including morning sex. Every prior meet up has involved sex.

Yesterday we had a physical activity date planned, but shitty weather kept plans up in the air until just before game time. Couple hours beforehand I tell her I might want to switch the plans to Netflix at her place depending on how bad the weather is but we’ll see. Then I text her an hour before and say let’s stick to the original plan. She texts me saying something like I really like that activity and I want to hang but I feel like crap tbh, but would be cool if you came over, but just so you know I’m not really up for anything.

I assume this is a test because she doesn’t want to feel like a slut since this was gonna be our first hangout sesh without a date, so I play along and say yeah that’s fine, I’m tired anyway. Was thinking I could get her to have sex once I got there. I figured it would be better not to act butthurt about it, but maybe not. Also, I did want to watch a specific movie I proposed, so I was actually looking forward to watching it even if we ended up not having sex. And we do have a good time together so it’s not like sex was the only reason I was there (just like 90% of the reason lol).

Anyway, we watch the movie and fool around a bit but she holds firm on not having sex. What’s the deal here? Am I just an orbiter beta chump now? Am I fucking her poorly? Did she just fuck some other guy the night before? Or is it possible she just wasn’t in the mood? Questioning whether or not it reflects on me.

Thoughts in general? How should I proceed? Night went fine, we had fun, laughed, fooled around, but no real hooking up. Should I make a point and not hit her up again for a while? Or am I reading into it too much?

EDIT: I know for a fact she wasn’t on her period cause I fucked her less than two weeks ago and she was at the end of her period then.