I understand that too much casual sex for women makes a bad long term partner. It leads to higher divorce rates and indicates that they are more emotionally unstable, they are less loyal, are poor decision makers and have low respect for themselves as they are willing to give themselves to whoever. It is in woman's nature to keep a man loyal to her and her only, and if she cannot due to her past record (high n-count) it indicates she has something wrong with her and therefore has a low SMV. This makes sense and I understand the evolutionary reasoning behind it due to the women being pretty much handicapped in terms of survival compared to man, and disabled for 9 months of her life during pregnancy requiring the man to 'protect' her. Before the contraceptive pill and condoms existed, if women got fucked there was a relatively high chance of them falling pregnant - they had to pick who they fucked wisely and ensure the man really liked them.

Back in the day, men could fuck multiple women in their tribe, and get them all pregnant. It was in his interest to fuck multiple women to reduce the chances of him essentially being cucked from other men. But men fucking 20, 30, 40, 50 different women, from different places of different races was unheard of. A man fucking that many women could not physically happen due to availability and disease would spread and be rampant - he would have dozens of children. At what limit does it start to affect a mans psyche? 50 women? 100 women ? 1000 women?

We've all had that feeling of dread that the condom broke, we didn't pull out in time, she forgot her pill the moment we have ejaculated in someone we don't truly like or some chick we picked up and barely know. If it is a woman that we actually really genuinely like, that feeling isn't really there or we aren't as concerned. We all know how unfulfilling casual sex and one night stands really are - it is a short term benefit. What happens if you fuck this amazing 10 out of 10 bombshell, most perfect sex in your life, turn her into a FWB, but have completely different values and beliefs in life and would never work out long term? Aren't you setting yourself up for disappointment in the future by not getting to know them beforehand and following your lustful desires? Isn't casual sex a form of not controlling your lustful emotions and desires - something beta men do?

Over my time I have spoken to multiple high SMV women friends (smart, educated 8's and above) from different social circles with relatively low n-counts (<5), and they have made it quite clear that they have far less interest in pursing anything serious or even casual with the guys known to sleep around a lot (because they don't want anything casual anyway). They want the guys who are alpha as fuck, smart, fit and are in a ltr with some hot bombshell. High quality women want high SMV men who can hold down a HIGH smv woman, not jumping from woman to woman every weekend.

What are your thoughts on this? Have I got this all wrong?