Your "average dad" defers parenting to his wife, so that he can focus on providing greater security to the whole family. He willingly surrenders that space to her. So by default, the average mom is a better parent than the average dad. His ability is unproven and unknown. His relationship with the children is lessened.

But when a man CHOOSES to be a father, when parenting becomes his PRIORITY, no woman can match him.

The greatest of all chefs are men. The greatest of all teachers are men. Likewise, the greatest of all parents are men. Cooking, teaching, and parenting are all considered feminine vocations, but only because men have traditionally surrendered these responsibilities to women. When a man sets his mind to one of these, when it becomes his mission in life, no woman can compare.

My kids are my passion. My motivation. My purpose. I always have activities and lessons planned for them. I make up games and challenges. I take them on adventures and encourage their imaginations. They eat healthy meals and get plenty of exercise. Outdoors whenever possible.

Mom feeds them drive-thru crap. TV and TV and TV and more TV. Go watch cartoons, mommy's on the Internet. Go play games on the tablet, mommy's watching TV. Just go away, mommy's trying to expand her ass to fill the couch.

I changed jobs and took a pay cut so I could work from home. My kids are far more important than my career. I'll worry about raises and promotions once they're old enough to drive and establishing some independence.

Every time they beg mom for attention, she pushes them away. She isn't a bad person. She isn't some drunk or junkie. Just your normal American girl: Lazy and self-centered. No ambition, no purpose. All she wants from life is comfort and perpetual distraction.

When I divorced her ass, there wasn't any fight for custody. Just a token threat that was immediately dropped upon assurance of spousal support (alimony). Even her parents agreed the kids were better off with me.

I am a RedPill dad. I've met a handful of other men like myself. Not many, but they've all been top quality guys. I know there are others here. If you're one, speak up! Let's trade notes and swap stories.


Some observations and advice for men in similar situations:

  • When I'm out at the park, and in full on Alpha Dad mode, tossing the kids around, laughing and having fun, the women are very obviously attracted. But they know it limits my availability and comes with baggage (ex-wife leeching money). This screens out any looking for serious relationships. Any that remain are looking for FWB arrangements, so approach accordingly!

  • If you are still married and you take over too many parental duties, your wife WILL resent you. No matter how much she whines and begs for you to get involved, you are taking over her territory. Conquering her domain. FUCK IT. FUCK HER. Do it anyways. Wives are temporary. Children are for life.

  • Casual girls don't meet my kids. Ever. FWBs might, assuming the "friends" part is legit. They are never left alone with my kids. A fuckbuddy is not a babysitter.

  • Time is my greatest limitation. Hard to find plates. Hard to keep them spinning. Would welcome any advice on how I can make more approaches or keep plates spinning when I only have two free weekends and a couple unpredictable weekday evenings (grandparent time) per month.

TL;DR? Go back to reddit. We read shit here.