Long term plate response to hanging out: “can we say yes for now but play it by ear” - how would you respond?

CalvinRichland · 2018-08-17T01:45:12+00:00

Let's say no and play it by ear

OfficerWade · 2018-08-17T01:58:49+00:00

Tell her to go fuck herself

aaaGreg · 2018-08-17T02:44:54+00:00

She’s playing her options and you’re not tier 1

binrobinro · 2018-08-17T03:25:35+00:00

I wouldn't hang out with someone whose attention is conditional.

Retstortion · 2018-08-17T03:32:02+00:00

Don’t respond and find another girl. Fuck that flakey shit

RedLegendx · 2018-08-17T01:42:19+00:00

Don’t accept a wishy wash response like those, tell her to let you know when she’s 100 % of her schedule and then you’ll set something up.

BeeBopJoe · 2018-08-17T01:40:26+00:00

Did you give a specific date, time and place? If you did then just fall back and wait until the day comes. Dont hit her up just wait to see if shes like "R we still hanging out at so and so place"

If you never get that kind of text then she wanted to flake in the first place.

TheBigForklift · 2018-08-17T05:37:47+00:00

She may mean play it by ear in terms of logistics. So, “I believe I’m off Friday so I believe I can hang out but let’s play it by ear.”

Bruchibre · 2018-08-17T06:02:36+00:00

Well plate or not this kind of response is kind of rude if it doesn't come with a reasonable explanation.

hatefulreason · 2018-08-17T09:28:44+00:00

say ok then ghost for a week

Title	Long term plate response to hanging out: “can we say yes for now but play it by ear” - how would you respond?
Author	bluefingerblue
Upvotes	1
Comments	23
Date	August 17, 2018 1:37 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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