When women shit-test hard, like by subtly insulting my physical appereance (usually happens to me with high smv girls), for example, I really start losing interest in them and I don't even want to engage and reply.

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I know that when this happens, a man should usually hold frame and demand respect by withdrawing attention and losing interest. It's also possible to tell them "Don't say that ever again" (not my favorite tho) with a dominant voice and body language and then, if she happens to say something similar again, totally withdraw attention. But is it really worth it? Like when this happens I literally start hating women and their shit behavior.

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Like I start understanding they do this because they are somehow interested (more like in a neutral position), they are just testing my masculine frame. But what about women who are interested in you but don't shit-test? do they usually have much lower smv than yours?

This makes sense, as I really doubt Brad Pitt or any other high smv guy would get shit-tested by any woman, right?

The woman would lose an huge opportunity by playing games (aka shit testing) and then she would regret what she said as soon as the high smv guy walks away.

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Am I right or is there any other explanation about this?

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