Don't shit where you eat. Sure.

I hanged out with one of my lady colleagues, colleague 1, and it's been pretty amazing. I can't say we're attracted to each other but we're really close friends and I'm totally okay with it. Not planning on taking it the whole thing to sex.

And then there's colleague 2. I have fun with her as much as colleague 1, but I would never have the balls to ask her out because she's in her late 20s and is in a ltr for roughly 4 years. I'm early 20s.

So two days ago, I'm scrolling down Facebook and one of colleague 2 started a page where she uploads pictures she takes in the city. I text her and congratulate her on what she did. She thanks me and then... She literally asks me out. She says, "I'm going to ...., Wanna join me?"

Of course I fucking refused. She can't set rhe frame of the hangout.

She gets mad at me and said, "Well, I don't understand why you wouldn't hang out with me. We can spend some time together too you know, colleague 1 is not the only girl in the company"

And I'm like, "yeah right, you made it look like I don't want to hang out with you now, is that it?"

"Well, saying that you're busy tonight is like "Fuck off""

"I wouldn't subtly or explicitly tell you 'Fuck off'. If I didn't like you, we wouldn't even be having this conversation. I am busy and can't make it tonight. But tomorrow maybe? (Time and place)"

She fucks around for a couple more texts until she finally submits to my frame.

We meet the next day and she gives me shittests here and there which I dodged some and failed others.

She hints couple of times half-jokingly that I can join her at her apartment and that her boyfriend is not living with her. Honestly, I ignored her because... Again, I don't wanna fuck her. If she for jealous for me just hanging out with colleague 1 what would happen if I fucked her and still hanged out with colleague 1?

So at some point of the hangout, I look at my wristwatch and say, "Alright, I need to go now. It was fun hanging out with you. We should do it some other time".

She asks me where I'm going.

I say, "Oh, I have a date and she's already waiting :D"

She was smiling and relaxed and having fun and after hearing my last like, everything went sour with her. I could spot it on her face.

So guys... Is she asking for the D? I thought it's that part of her life where she wants to feel like her early twenties again and that sex with her boyfriend has become so mundane, so she wanted to hook up with me.

You guys think it was a good call?

I mean I'm totally okay with it. I'd just love to hear further insights.