I know it's some meta next level shit, and I know that she short answer is to escalate and go for the kiss. If she makes out, she's into you, if not or rejects you, she's probably not (yet).

But the thing is some girls night get repulsed from this, in case they're being nice, and sometimes, if you make the wrong move with the wrong girl, your reputation might get stained, so my question is, how would you tell?

So far, I've seen a couple of examples. I met this girl at some club and she's one of the coordinator. She is an 8 and has this smart looks going on (I love it) I tried talking to her and flirting and the results seemed as if she were interested in me (blushing, smiling). But a few minutes later, right when the convo died out, she switched topics and left me to talk with other members of the group. I'd love to bang the shit out of her, but if I ask her out and she says she's just being nice cuz I'm aember of the group, then I'm pretty much fucked. The rest will think of me as this asshole Chad. She's on good terms with other coordinators so if she knows, they will also know.