Hey guys... So I've caught oneties for a girl I had my first kiss with (I'm virgin 22) and since then my game and confidence went downhill... How to recover?

I'm still seeing girls I already have multiple dates lined up for this week and the next but fuck me I'm feeling like I'm being unconsciously needy, like after I come across as needy I realize, "Holly shit! Shouldn't have said/done that".

Even the girl I'm having oneties with is desperately trying to put me into the friendzone. She became unresponsive to kino and flaked on md coupla times and keeps texting to a minimal.

How to recover?