I was having a conversation with my roommate and fraternity brother about gaming girls. I finally discovered what I’m worried about when gaming girls.

I fear social repercussions.

I was at a concert with all the boys and spoke to many girls, had a great night with one and she have me head. Fun time. I did it all with no approach anxiety.

This is different at my frats parties. I know everyone at the party all the time, by name, and always go around the house speaking to everyone. I will talk to a cute girl, but I will usually not advance.

Girls at this school gossip ridiculously. I came from an all boys high school that I could go out and say whatever I want like an asshole then go to school and not deal with a single dramatic event from it. Now at a coed college I realized this is my achilles heel right now.

Does anyone have some wisdom or words of advice or reads to overcome this. Or is this an example of don’t shit where you eat?