I've tried lifting, meditation and pretty much everything that is considered a confidence builder. Nothing has worked thus far. I used to be one of those chubby depressed kids whose situation began due to peer ostracization. Believe me, I've worked on it: I've lost most of the weight I used to carry, I have lifted irregularly with the result being a moderately fit and good-looking body and I've dealt with my depression. People around me think I'm smart, dependable, with a bright future and women find me attractive. But I still can't internalize confidence and still take minor jabs or insults to heart. Any advice?