Long story short, met this chick while I was in a previous LTR. Palpable attraction and chemistry at the time, but wasn't willing to cheat, so nothing came. Flash forward, she moved down to Florida (where I'm getting my MBA), and she's an hour away now.

First time I hung out with her, tried to escalate after noticing IOIs. We were both pretty lit on red wine; she said, "Really? Not tonight." Hung out a couple times since, but the IOIs stopped and overall demeanor changed to a Friendzone/orbiter feel (she even tried to bitch about finding cute guys where she is to me).

So, I decided, "Next." Went radio silent for a while, starting banging another chick more local. Today, received a text.

Her: "Babe I miss you." Me (about 45 min later): "Did I go somewhere"

No response. My gut says she was grasping for attention/validation. Still, I wouldn't mind the bang (she's hot and just crazy enough that I think it'd be dirty and hot). Thoughts on next move?