Long story short, met this chick while I was in a previous LTR. Palpable attraction and chemistry at the time, but wasn't willing to cheat, so nothing came. Flash forward, she moved down to Florida (where I'm getting my MBA), and she's an hour away now.
First time I hung out with her, tried to escalate after noticing IOIs. We were both pretty lit on red wine; she said, "Really? Not tonight." Hung out a couple times since, but the IOIs stopped and overall demeanor changed to a Friendzone/orbiter feel (she even tried to bitch about finding cute guys where she is to me).
So, I decided, "Next." Went radio silent for a while, starting banging another chick more local. Today, received a text.
Her: "Babe I miss you." Me (about 45 min later): "Did I go somewhere"
No response. My gut says she was grasping for attention/validation. Still, I wouldn't mind the bang (she's hot and just crazy enough that I think it'd be dirty and hot). Thoughts on next move?
[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]1bobbybluepill7 points8 points9 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen9 points10 points11 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]1bobbybluepill2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Ronin11A[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MagicGainbow0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]imaginarymonster0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]1kick64 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]11NV0K3R3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Ronin11A[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]lloopy3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]1OneTouchHowMuch5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 3 points3 points3 points | Copy Link
[–]1bobbybluepill1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Ronin11A[S] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]skoobled0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ronin11A[S] 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]skoobled1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–] points points points | Copy Link
[–]1bobbybluepill0 points1 point2 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]ProfessorRedPill1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]stage3alcoholic0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link