It seems people were interested in my texting strategies. I really like texting and consider it very useful for a number of reasons. Texting has basically supplemented pornography for me in my masturbation and has the added benefit of getting me laid with a number of women.

I also believe that texting is more in line with the younger generation, which is definitely who you should be trying to fuck. Would you rather have a 39 year old or a 19 year old getting wet for you? Case dismissed.

Sexting also allows me to get my fantasies out in the open. You find out which girls are sexually compatible with you right away. When you find a girl who wants to please you in the exact way you want, it's really arousing. Then you schedule sex with her and act it out for real.

Now there are downsides to texting as well as upsides. Let me mention them here:

Pros:

  • You can do it whenever. It’s convenient.
  • It’s less nerve-racking than physically approaching.
  • You can do it while beating off, and they can help you beat off better. (Again, I love texting while watching porn.)
  • You avoid needing to go on so many dates and can just “meet and fuck.”
  • You get a certain percentage of girls who prefer this kind of interaction.
  • You can get them wet at work. (This is really important.)
  • You can more easily establish the relationship with the terms you want. (I’ll explain below.)
  • You develop the skill of texting, which is becoming more and more important, especially with the younger generation.
  • It fits in extremely well with online dating, which is messaging based anyways.
  • You get naked pics.

Cons:

  • You have to be on your phone a LOT. (I recommend using a program like Messages for OSX so you can text from your computer.) It takes time.
  • You have to be intelligent. And verbal. Yes, this involves writing and thinking. Cavemen morons need not apply.
  • You lose a certain percentage of girls who DO NOT like texting much. (This is becoming less and less common, however.)
  • You do not develop the skill of first dates and physical approaches.

General rules:

  • Be playful at first. When I'm first texting a girl, I'm completely playful. Just fucking around. No sex, no anything. I basically just be goofy and disarming.

Here are some weapons in your arsenal when you are being playful:

  • Role playing
  • Inside jokes
  • Nicknames
  • Personality Guesses
  • Decisions / Leadership
  • Brags
  • Being Sexually Suggestive
  • Teasing
  • Asking Questions
  • Being silly / random

To truly stand out and not be boring, you can STACK these.

Here is a long 3 text stack example: (one rule, below, is to never send more than 3 texts in a row, so this is the LIMIT.)

Damn, Miss Legs. You're intense. Do you ever slow down?

I bet if I took you to Vegas for the weekend, you’d blow all your cash Friday night and have to panhandle Saturday morning.

I’ll help you write a cool homeless person sign, though.

Let's analyze this:

Damn, Miss Legs. [nickname] You're intense. [Personality guess] Do you ever slow down? [teasing, asking a question]

I bet [guessing] if I took you [leadership] to Vegas for the weekend [brag - you can afford trips, also Vegas is sexually suggestive you’d blow all your cash Friday night and have to panhandle Saturday morning. [teasing]

I’ll help you write a cool homeless person sign, though. [role playing, being silly random]

Do you see how many ways she can riff of of your text? It's definitely not boring.

I don't always spend that much time crafting a text - in fact, most of the time I don't - but doing the work does pay off.

  • Never just be texting one woman. If you're down to one, immediately get on online dating apps and start messaging more. The reason for this is that you are going to inadvertently come across as needy if you are only texting one woman at a time. More than one and you will be distracted. Ideally you will be messaging around 5 at a time. I like sexting with more than one girl at the same time, that to me is really hot.
  • Never send more than 3 text bubbles in a row. And watch how many words you type vs. how many words she types. You don't want it to be unbalanced. The only time you break this rule is when you are sexting. When you sext, send LOTS of content. You want her to be overwhelmed with dominance here as you say exactly what you want to do to her.
  • Do not ask JUST questions. Turn all single questions into either assumptions - "I bet you grew up in a small town." instead of "Where did you grow up?" or demands: "Tell me where you grew up." This applies to everything, not just my shitty example. The only time I ask questions is when I say: "Do you like it when I text you these things?" or "Does that turn you on?" after a string of dirty comments. Or if it's a part of a "stack" to not be boring.
  • iPhone is sexier than Android. I'm sorry, but the blue bubble matters.
  • Always try to escalate into sex talk. Look there's a reason she's texting you. She wants to see if you can turn her on. The whole POINT of texting is to get them turned on, wet at work, and wanting to schedule sex with you. Remember that: you're texting to get her to masturbate to you, to comply with you being sexually dominant, to send you pictures, and to schedule sex with you ASAP.
  • You escalate by taking whatever they say and moving it one step. If it's at night, see if they are in bed. If they talk about how stressed they are, talk about back rubs. If they make a joke that could be portrayed as dirty, take it literally and go there with it.

Sexting rules:

  • NO ADJECTIVES! The only adjectives you should use are hard, wet, and deep. Don't talk about your "big throbbing cock." Or her "nice hard pink nipples." Or whatever. Don't write bad romance novel prose.
  • Be upfront about what you're doing. Tell them stuff like, "I'm getting turned right now writing this, knowing you're reading it from miles away, and I barely know you." Use words like "stranger," "don't know you," and "fantasy" with them. You want them to feel like you're being swept away by the idea of fucking them. This helps if you're actually jerking off while you're texting them. More on that below:
  • Be extremely literal. Don't tell them: "I want you to suck my cock." Tell them, "I'm thinking about holding you down and unzipping my pants while you're looking at my hard cock. I'm thinking about putting it in your mouth and you feeling how hard it is. I'm looking at your picture right now when I'm thinking about this, and it's getting me really hard."
  • Sext for you. Let your dominant fantasies go. I always tell them exactly what I want. I want my cock in their mouth. I want to put it in whenever I want. I want to come over sometime and fuck them even though we've never met. I want to just show up and pull their panties down and fuck them. I want their pussy on my mouth, and I want them to come on my mouth and on my dick. I tell them this. I tell them I'm pulling off to their pictures and that I want them to send more. If they are considerably younger than me (18 or up of course, freaks), I will tell them that it turns me on that they are so young. I tell them exactly what my dick is telling me, and I will just go on about it. They usually get REALLY WET and many of them will rub themselves and orgasm.
  • Feel free to send like 15 texts in a row. I do not wait for them to make sure "it's ok" once we are sexting. I just plow forward. If I don't get a response, I will simply add: "What do you think about that? Do you like when I tell you these things?" Every time I've done this they've said "yes." Don't take short responses as bad. A lot of times they want you to just keep going, and a lot of times they are masturbating.
  • When they do get horny, especially when they touch themselves to your dirty texts or send pictures, reward them. Here are some good reward phrases: "Good girl." "I like that." "That's fucking hot." "That's what I want."
  • Schedule sex, not dates. The only date I will do is going to the bar to have a few drinks before sex. I don't have time, and it's all I want anyways. After sexting with them twice, sometimes even just once, you're in. It's just a matter of getting them to your place.