I keep finding myself in a position where I have all my ducks in a row, but something falls through and the girl just doesn't want anything remotely sexual to do with me.

I'm black, btw, and although everyone keeps saying it's not a race thing, I'm beginning to believe otherwise.

I'm not saying this happens all the time. To some girls, I've been attractive enough to where they didn't see a black guy, all they saw was a guy they wanted to fuck, but when it does happen, it's like they can't see past it. And they'd never admit to it. Never in a thousand goddamn years.

Does race actually matter? Do white women view black men as lesser? Are they afraid of the backlash they may receive from white men (who would have to be racist pieces of horseshit to have any problem with a well kept black man btw)? Is it my city? If I moved to New York or California would it be different?