Was thinking the other day about why overweight and obese women are such a turnoff. True - it looks gross - if the choice is between lifting a fupa to get my dick wet and my hand, my hand wins. But are there reasons beyond pure looks why fat women are such a turn off?

Then it hit me like a bolt of lightning.

Women generally know that when they are fat, they are less attractive. Presence of a multi-billion dollar diet industry nicely reveals the distance between what the fat acceptance people say and what women actually buy. The truth is that for most women, there is a deep desire to not be a fat ass.

If you accept that premise, then you have to accept that a woman who is, in fact, a fat ass likely has self control issues. As Confucius say: fat woman who see cupcake usually eat cupcake. What else do we know about women with no self control:

  • Unable to resist dick when on offer and horny
  • Unable to control spending money
  • Unable to stand firm against child's misbehavior
  • Unable to have discipline it takes to master a craft, like cooking or something else useful in the domestic sphere
  • Unable to do a job well

In short, we think fat people are lazy because, well, they usually are. Not just physically lazy, but typically emotionally and intellectually lazy as well. If you followed 100 woman home, 50 fat ones, 50 fit ones, and saw their houses, the fit ones would have 50% more clean houses on average. Their incomes would be 50% higher - because well - having energy and self control leads to higher income.

Fat women on average likely have lower credit scores, more depression, and more emotional problems/baggage than average. Someone could likely find a study, but if you are a former beta (check) - and spent a large part of your life dating fat women before you wised up, you would likely know this already.

The takeaway is this. We don't dislike fat women really for shallow reasons like looks. We know it is a marker for 99 different other afflictions you probably have that we generally do not want to settle for.