I have been going dancing an a weekly basis and I fucking love it. Lifting has been paying dividends, combined with my improving dancing skills, I get a ton of IOIs each time, girls tapping me on the shoulder to dance with me, make out often and etc. However, this is all pretty new to me and not a scene I grew up with, so have a few retarded questions for the clubbing veterans of TRP.

  1. How to you reject a girl you're not interested in whatsoever, in a drama and butthurt free manner after you danced with her? Sometimes in the beginning of the night when its a bit slow, and to warm up I'll dance with people I'm not especially attracted to. After a few minutes it can become hot and heavy and after the fine bitches come to the floor I need to bail to peruse that. Should I just stop dancing with her and go take a piss and then upon returning don't dance with her no more? What if she follows you? what if upon return she wants to dance again? Should I say something like, "it was nice dancing with you but..."? It can be cringe worthy and a bit embarrassing when they don't get the clue and keep clinging to you.

  2. There was an attractive albeit older lady (35) yesterday and we hit it off. We danced for a good bit, I got her name and number. She was ready to take me home, dancing while grabbing my dick, guiding my hands to her puss and tits and etc. I might peruse her later on. However, once again, as above, the night was still young and I wanted to keep dancing with other girls and get some more numbers. The thing is, the club is pretty small, a single medium size floor, so getting lost among the crowds is much harder than some fancy pants club in Europe with three stories and a thousand people. I guess this question is like the first one with one exception, I do like the girl, find her attractive and might peruse her, just want to keep exploring my options. So any "rejection" or bullshit story needs to be more mild in nature, so to not to burn any bridges with her. "I'll call you soon, want to just keep dancing with others?", or "came here to dance, not to make out"? Both sound pretty lame.

  3. If you dance with a girl for a good bit, you get some medium IOIs (smile, eye contact, some light dancing near you) and then she suddenly leaves the floor to go to the bathroom/bar are you suppose to follow her? I mean, you can interpret it in two ways. The first is, she wants to rest, grab a drink and talk with you where its more quite. The second one is she wants distance and you repulse her/creep her out and she bails on you. Regardless, isn't following her and "chasing her" reduces your abundance mentality? Shouldn't you just do your own thing and if she wants to escalate on the dance floor let her but you shouldn't chase poon desperately and follow it around the club?

Bonus question.

  1. Some nights, random dudes will approach and give me a high five whilst dancing. Are they gay? Are they making fun of me? Are they just having a good time and trying to have a no homo dance off?

Thanks in advance fellow EDM dancers. I love this scene and coming once a week is a ritual I wait for the entire week. Just need to make it more tight.

Its crazy how much more confident you can be with a bit of booze (Dutch courage), LIFTING and some improved dance skills. I go alone most nights and even when I don't get a number or make out with a club slut its a huge confidence booster and encourages me to lift and improve.