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[–]1sam_ba_lam 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
True, bro and yes we may be different but biologically...
So perhaps a LTR better suits me. I assumed LTR's were a waste of time, but looking at my life at the moment, maybe it suits me more. Again everyone is different.
So perhaps a LTR better suits me.
I assumed LTR's were a waste of time, but looking at my life at the moment, maybe it suits me more. Again everyone is different.
Yep, your post implies that you have found a propensity (aka female) in your life yet the conditions are the same. LTR (caveat emptor) if you want. Know the risks and enjoy the benefits.
[–]musicvita25[S] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I haven't found one yet to be honest.
Well thanks to TRP I can hold my own for one. I am a far better man on every level thanks to this sub and other things.
However, finding one that is genuinely worth a LTR may be harder but I'm not holding my breath.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Plates will spin themselves.
[–]LibertarianLibertine 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I am curious on the intensity of the 'spinning' done by most RP'ers. Some describe them as girls you flirt with from time to time, others as fixed FWB's.
Could give a proper discussion on how much energy it takes.
[–]theozoph 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
girls you flirt with from time to time,
Not a plate.
others as fixed FWB's
Plates.
[–]LibertarianLibertine 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
How would you define a plate thn? How often should you interact or have sex for it to be a plate?
[–]theozoph 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
ONS = ONS
booty call = plate
booty call + a few dates = plate+
regular dates + sex = LTR (stop lying to yourself)
No sex = yeah, no...
[–]LibertarianLibertine 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My # of plates is zero. Meh.
To be honest I usually get tired of booty calls after a couple of times. I just always want someone new...
[–]1PaulRivers10 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, they're definitely not a plate if you're just flirting with them. You have to be sleeping with them. (There might be a little ambiguity if you're, say, getting off but not technically having sex, but it always involves physical and explicity sexual contact.)
[–]musicvita25[S] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great point.
From texting, to flirting, to kissing, to dating, to drinking with, to taking out, to meeting up, to fucking, and so on from day one the first moment its effort.
In my case I've got plates that live all over the city, and are busy doing photoshoots, travelling, doing their dumbass jobs etc. Its effort even just texting them.
Pimpin' no matter how you interpret it, ain't easy.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Cut the crap man, you are rationalizing.
We all might believe in TRP but were all different.
This is also what women and betas tell themselves. We are the same organic sack of shit like everybody else. TRP is a toolbox, you take out of it what you need, but the toolbox stays the same, you understand? You don't throw away the saw just because most people don't need it, it is still part of the toolbox.
Biologically, spinning plates is the most rewarding thing there is, because you are spreading your genes. It's 'exhausting' because:
It looks like you're trying to recieve validation from others, just like fat acceptance feminist do. I know spinning plates is hard, but don't make excuses for giving up.
[–]laere 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How does one go about not seeking validation. Also doesn't seeking validation stem from low self-esteem?
[–]TRP VanguardCyralea -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Biologically, spinning plates is the most rewarding thing there is
This is the flaw in your premise. This is not true for all men. I spun plates for about a year in my late 20's, then I got bored of it. Every pussy started looking the same. I started getting far more excited about my career and my hobbies, to the point that the allure of fresh pussy wasn't on par with it.
I have a regular chick I've been seeing for a few years now. It's preferable to my plates setup because I have more time for the things that I want to do.
That and the sex is much more consistent.
[–]1PaulRivers10 -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I knew a friend who spun plates. He introduced me to Game and TRP, and for that I'm thankful, but there was nothing in his lifestyle that actually made his sex with multiple women sound better than sex with my last girlfriend.
The girls he was hooking up with ranged from something I wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole, to pretty attractive but pretty dark triad herself.
It's funny that you mention "trying to receive validation from others", what else would you call your post trying to convince everyone that "biologically" spinning plates is the most rewarding?
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
You give me the preference of one human being, and you conclude that spinning plates is less rewarding than having a girlfriend. However, I have actual science to back it up. There's a thing called the coolidge effect, which is implemented in our reward circuit. Everytime we fuck a new woman, our brain releases extra dopamine as a way of saying: You spread your genes, good job. Without this effect, internet porn wouldn't exist as you just could endlessly fap to the hottest woman.
banging a wide variety of woman releases more dopamine than repeatedly banging one. To me it looks like you don't want to put in the effort to be able to do that.
EDIT: I just read that sex with multiple women doesn't SOUND better than sex with your girlfriend. You have never had that kind of lifestyle, yet you conclude that it isn't for you. You couldn't possible know, you only make up excuses because you are lazy.
[–]quitegolden 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
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What is this?
First, your "bla bla bla you're lazy" shaming language is yawn. Oh no, someone called me lazy on the internet!
Second, selectively quoting some bit of science is not "proof" of anything. If I wanted to waste my time researching it, I know I've read article before about chemicals released in the brain relating to pair bonding. Together, your Coolidge Effect vs Pair Bonding, it doesn't support you, it supports what the OP was saying - that different people are different, and want different things, and to not get your panties in a bunch trying to argue about how everyone should want what you want.
Third, you're clearly trying to receive acceptance from others (just like fat feminists do, as you put it), or you wouldn't be so concerned with trying to convince everyone that "all men" are like you. You're trying to receive social validation that how what you want is not only ok, but the "best".
Fourth, you're an idiot. I actually have had sex/makeout with multiple women in college, where I had a friends-with-benefits who would come over and sleep with me on Friday, and a different girl who was interested in me come over and make out heavily on Saturday. It went on for a month, because - I couldn't believe how shitty it was. I kept doing it thinking - this feels crappy, but when am I going to get another opportunity like this? Maybe if I stick with it, it will feel great next time.
It never did. After a month, we had a school break, and I didn't take it up again. I just don't like it. My brain do any of this "release extra dopamine" bullshit - it just released "this is shitty" chemicals into my brain.
And I don't mean "I'm doing something morally wrong" feelings, or "liking it when it was happening but didn't like it later" feelings. I just straight up didn't like it.
You're an idiot. And the OP is right - it's different for different people.
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