Hello people,
I had been on a few dates with a woman in my office.We made out. Long story short, I left that job and moved to another city 4 hours away.
We were in touch and she asked questions like what sort of woman I would marry etc. She was full on into me. She had a bf, but when I asked her she said, he was an ex.
After, moving to the new city, I went back to the old city to collect my belongings, (I was moving house). She very enthusiastically wanted to meet me. We met and we made out.
15-20 later, I texted her, "Movie this saturday" . A day later she replied, "Sorry I have other plans".
I didn't have any contact with her for the next few days. She texts me,"someone was supposed to meet and me take me to movie. Looks like he is kidnapped."
So, I replied after a couple of days on text. This is the conversation that ensued:
Me: Coffee,Thursday, 5 PM Her: Sorry, Wednesday and Thursday I have holidays and we are planning to shift house (She had to to shift within the same city). So will be busy packing and loading
Me: U don't have to explain, I get it.
H: Unlike u my dad does not approve of movers and packers. Get what?
M: When a girl meets she wants to meet
H: Oho
M: Else excuses galore
H: Don't analyze girls. No one has been successful so far
M: Babe, I have been with quite a few. I am not naive
H: Oh don't overreact. We are moving from one house to another
M: That's good
H: so you can come here
M: No sorry
H: y?
M: U think I wanna meet your family?
H: Oh u don't? I thought u wanted more than friendship
M: U want me to ask your hand or what!
H: If u want more than friendship, u will have to ask the whole of me not just the hand
M: That's a better one. u mad me smile
H: :) Oh I am here to make me smile
M: Do u even wanna meet or am i pushing you?
H: No, I do want to meet. But really I am shifting. u can always come to my house
M: we will c abt that
H: ok let me know. u haven't seen my house. So u will get a chance to meet my whole family
M: no, not now
H: Hmm...
M: i have some work in your city.....maybe we will c then.
H: ok
M: gtg, enjoy your life, bye.
H: u too, bye
That was the conversation we had. A day earlier, we were talking and when I asked her what she did on sunday, she said she had gone on a long drive with a friend. That made me feel a little insecure.
A spoke with one of my old colleagues on phone, and he tole me that this woman had a new guy in her life, though he was not sure.
Comments, please. Should I hit this woman up in a couple of week's time or should I let it be? I really want to bang her and I have no other options at present.
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