I noticed something about myself for some time now. It is the fact that I don't look for sex for the act itself but mostly for the feeling that I get after it, knowing that I fucked a certain type of girl, and feeling superior from the other people that were chasing her.

I personally love gaming girls that are currently in relationships, specially if the guy is somewhat an "alpha" or has traits that I would consider him being better than me.

Does anyone else here likes more the validation from having sex more than the act in itself?

I don't want you to judge me, I want opinions on this topic and obsevations about this behavior. Is it healthy or generally bad for you? why?...