Hey Guys, Question I have. I am engaged, due to get married in March (yes I know that isn't the red pill way but marriage is going ahead).

Lately my Fiance has been putting me down so much, even infront of others, making jokes at my expense etc. I even had her admit to me today that she has been.

So my questions:

  1. If she is putting me down infront of others, could this be a symptom of me not having high enough SMV in her eyes? I ask because I went from a contract job paying $75k down to a job paying 60k, so my pay has decreased since I met her and I used to do a lot of gym before I met her and I don't really do any anymore, so I have lost all my muscle and gained a tummy.

Is my best option:

  1. To raise my sexual market value (get a higher paying job again and get in shape)
  2. Just to talk to her about it
  3. something else?

looking forward to opinions on how to proceed if you have a partner that is putting you down a lot, making jokes at your expense etc.