So, I had a one month fling with a woman who is an ex colleague. When we first met on a date, she said that she did nit have a boyfriend.That was a lie, She was into me then. We went on 4-5 dates and we made out.

Then I moved to a different city. For the first 20 days, she was in contact everyday.

If I did not Whatsapp her for a couple of days, she would Whatsapp right back complaining that I did not have time for her.

Then all of a sudden she grew colder. She stopped inititiating conversations.

I asked her for coffee on a meetup, she said she was busy.

This happened a couple of times.

Then I went no contact with her for two weeks. I inititated conversation yesterday. She was replying normally. I asked her out for coffee, she said 'hahaha'. And then she stopped replying.

This is where I acted like the ultimate chump. I called her phone from 3 different numbers, she did not know two of them.

She picked the call once told me she was out and will call me later.

She did not call me.

I whatsapped her, 'you never called back' she saw that message but did not whatsapp back.

I am feeling like complete shit. My old colleagues tell me that she is probably seeing someone new. On a couple of Sundays, she did tell me that she had gone out for a long drive with a 'friend'.

My plan is to work on my physique for a month and then go to her office (My previous office), talk to everyone and ignore her.

At least I would get a bit of my self respect back.

Advise brothers!