So since I've been active in finding new partners I have been really successful. Tinder has been a literal goldmine. As a result I have four active plates currently. I haven't yet had the conversation with three of them as to whether or not I'm seeing other people. The fourth is strictly a FWB and knows it.

I'm in a band as the lead singer and we have a show coming up soon, and all three of them have expressed interest in coming. What I'd prefer to avoid is all three of them showing up and having to deal with a potentially complicated night when I'm trying to perform and then having to deal with any possible drama when I choose the one I want to go home with. It won't be a venue big enough for them to not realize I'm talking to all of them separately.

How would you approach a night like this? Just stay with an IDGAF attitude and if they get pissed, then let them and manage it after the fact? Shoot for a threesome? Just laugh and have fun with the fact I'm even in this position?