So I matched with this really hot chick on Tinder today. I was running my standard game of delayed responses, light negging and short responses. There was an instant chemistry it seems.
Now when I pushed for a number and meet up at a bar, she gave me her full name and told me to add her on Facebook.
I guess she wants to see some 1. Preselection and social proof that I'm not a loser recluse. or 2. Wants to know I'm a real person and not a scammer/I am really who I say I am.
The thing is, I despise social media, and just last year finally joined reluctantly to setup a Facebook page for my business.
So the gist of it, my Facebook profile has less than 50 friends, like maybe 5 pictures, and very few posts. It doesn't even has my correct birthdate and last name as I am privacy minded and just generally dislike Facebook.
So the convo went like that:
Good Flirting. Jokes and teasing back and forth. Good chemistry, she responds fast.
Me: Lets hang at a bar, whats your number
Her: My last name is Tinderella add me on Facebook.
Me: No. Lets meet at a bar and see if there is chemistry and then we can exchange info.
Her: No lol.
So, in most cases, I would just ignore her and move a long, but this one is a real looker among the Fatties I normally match with.
What should I do?
Nothing. No response. Wait it out. Don't put her on a pedestal. Her pussy is nothing special.
Reply. "k" and then radio silence.
Wait a few days and if no response, cave in and add her on Facebook. Up until this, I appeared pretty cool and kinda indifferent. This will be a major kink in my frame, as I will submit to her wishes.
Explain why I don't want to do Facebook shit. I'm older, barely use it, don't want psycho bitches to stalk me or harass me after a bad hookup and etc.
Some other witty retort?
TLDR: Hot chick won't schedule a meet before Facebook validation. My Facebook is pathetic and anemic and would achieve a negative preselection and social proof. How to proceed?
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