Hello everyone. I'm a 21 y.o. male, and I'm Bi-curious. I have a girlfriend, and everyone I know has no idea I have these inclinations. I don't want this to sound like a coming out story so I'll try and be as straight to the point as possible.

For starters I'm adamant about maintaining my attraction to men a secret, for reasons I'm sure many of you understand. In my case It's purely physical, I have no romantic interest in another man. That said, I'm too concerned about STDs to engage in promiscuous/casual activities with random men. (Or women for that matter.)

I feel trapped in a way, having these urges. Just wondering if anyone has some advice to give me.