Edit: Don't miss the forest for the trees guys. This is a post about a female's behavior/decision making and why it disqualifies her moving forward.

Being "the prize" is excellent for your mindset, success rate, overall attitude etc. It's something to aspire to for newbies and something to relish for vets.

PSA: Being the prize doesn't make you safe. It just changes the game.

Yesterday I had a newer plate over to cook dinner. I told her to bring wine. She brought wine, and liqueur, and candy (wtf dumb dumb? I don't eat that shit); plus her A+ woman game.

This night was round four.

On night one we went to multiple bars. I escalated. Kissed. Suggested her place. Overcame ASD (we don't have to hook up). Banged. Played indifference. Genuinely didn't care. Successfully plated.

She exclaimed how happy she was that I was a real man and not a little pussy. I was not surprised, of course, I am the prize...

To this point she was a sweet, submissive, feminine, healthy/athletic chick who volunteers in the community and has her shit together.

Last night, out of nowhere she stops the convo and leads into a pre-planned "we need to talk" moment.

"I should have told you this before..."

Oh fuck me, I don't like where this is going.

Long story short, three years ago she contracted HSV 1 (oral herpes) on her genitals (rare but possible) when a dude with a "cold sore" went down on her.

She started crying (bullshit). She said she felt horrible for not telling me, but things just happened in ways she didn't expect them to (no responsibility can be a good or bad thing).

She kept saying how hard it is for her (no surprise, she's the center of the universe) to talk to people about it. It's such a burden on her and her sweet caring little soul (gtfo).

I sat there silently. I was pissed off and wanted to tell her to leave, but also wanted to get every bit of info out of her I could.

The info I calmly gathered was that HSV 1 has a 4% chance of being transmitted without an outbreak (She had no visible lesions) and that drops to 2-3% with a condom.

EXCEPT she blew me like there was no tomorrow KNOWING she carried the oral herpes virus and contracted it herself when some piece of shit went down on her KNOWING he had the virus.. making her a piece of shit as well.

After I verified the info on my phone to the best of my abilities and had all of my questions answered, I told her I need some time to think things over and it would be best if she went home.

She is now demoted to level 0, unworthy of sex, never to be promoted again. She did not protect herself or me from STDs. She can not be trustworthy. She was selfish and weak (expected) but I made the mistake of letting her blow me unprotected and never asked about any STDs because I was focused on getting the close on night one.

A simple question might have peaked her emotions and led her to divulge the info I needed up front.

While I know tons of people carry HSV 1 and I could have previously contracted it from something as simple as kissing, it was still my responsibility to take care of my shit and I failed because I was focused on being the awesome guy she would want to fuck. Being the prize in her eyes didn't protect me from shit. To really be the prize, I needed to be my own future prize and protect my own investment better.

Luckily it's not AIDS or some other horrible monkey buttsex-itis. I'll get tested and probably be clean.

If I'm very unlucky, it's not the end of the world.

Lesson learned. Adjustments will be made.

Either way, and I can't stress this enough, she has to be a goner. Even if I test positive and risk nothing by continuing to see her, she has proven herself unworthy.

Next time it could be a much more detrimental lie or withholding of the truth. I'm not surprised that she put her interests above mine. Maybe she just wanted some dick to start with. Once she thought she could lock me down she felt bad because she had to tell me to try to move things forward in the right way. Too late bitch.

I'm not even positive what all the takeaways are here other than:

Knowing you're the prize to them is great. Being the prize to yourself is where it's at.

Be your own mental point of origin. Your frame, not hers. Her crying and pity party didn't work on me because I've done my reading. She can fuck right off.

Ask about STDs? Not sure on this one but I wouldn't think you would lose any attraction by caring more about your health than you do about getting a little pussy.

Wrap it up. I'm probably going to be ok because I did wear condoms. The blowjobs concern me but you gotta live your life.

Who the fuck knows? Chime in if you have thoughts.

Edit: Reference for new guys https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/3755/the_bitch_management_hierarchy_study_guide