While i agree that looks/genetics do matter to a huge extent, it doesn't mean that one should wallow in self-pity and discard self-improvement and challenges. It's true that your attempts to get a girl will be futile if you don't meet her minimum threshold for attractiveness and I agree with a lot of what they say but their attitudes aren't helping them imo. They should strive for improvement physically, financially, socially etc.

Thoughts?