I recently had a 1st date with a 57 year old woman (I'm 27). It was a day time date in a pub, where we just chatted. She's agreed to a 2nd date.
She's basically made a pretty big hint that she wants me to decide where to go for the 2nd date. We both live on opposite sides of a big city.
I don't know whether to make it an evening date in the city, but then we need to take a bus or taxi home and that could be awkward.
She lives in the suburbs of the city, in a residential area, so apart from the pub we went to, there's no where really to go. Some hotels and a few other pubs, that's more or less it.
I could make it a day time date, but then what? Walking around a park is all I can think of.
I also don't know if sex is on her mind. Which is why I want easiest access to get back to hers. I live with my parents sadly (I don't think she knows this), so if we do go somewhere afterwards, it has to be hers.
EDIT: People seem to be getting really angry over me dating a woman much older. Not sure why. Probably projecting their own insecurities and shortcomings onto me.
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