With sex thrown in our face left right and center these days desperation can certainly kick in if you haven't got jiggy.

I went through a 7 week dry patch of no sex. It drove me crazy. Ass was all I could think about. It got me pumped at the gym, but also made me relapse a bit into beta mode. Something you want to avoid.

Take my beta stubborn brother. Slowly trying to come around to the red pill ways of the world. But is now after probably 2 years of virtually no sex at all going back to a girl who cheated on him with his best friend. He claims to be just "messing about with her" and its "action."

I have to say, "action" is really overrated. The act of sex makes us feel alive, it turns us on, gets heart pumping, and without it for a while life can be a little frustrating and dull.

Yet there are other things to make us feel alive. Such as sports, exercise, cold approaching, networking, building something, learning a new language, you name it.

That is exactly what we ignore in this weird weird world. We want to accomplish something until we see a massive pair of tits on a billboard. Or we watch a programme and in the ads are more tits. It fucks with your mind.

If desperation kicks in and you want to fuck something, the best things I have found:

  1. Do not hire a prostitute - I have never done it, and never intend to. Having sex with a girl you gamed, connect with attracted is far more emphatic in the bedroom. Its the easy way out. See it as using cheats on GTA. It gets boring fast.

  2. Meet new poon - sometimes you'd think that your current collection of plates is all you need. But if they are flaking, not giving up easy, etc etc (aka being women) then you need to go out and find something new. Chances are far better with a new batch, rather then sticking to the same old excuses.

  3. Limit masterbation - see r/nofap

  4. Just focus purely on the fact on this mantra "Ok, so you haven't got laid in a while. Yes its frustrating. But think about it. You've waited this long. Any minute/day now the wait will be over when you make the opportunity occur." I realised in my dry patch, well its going to end any day now, no point harping on and getting down about it like a beta.

  5. Do not under any circumstances lose your self respect - I'm sure if and when my brother sleeps with that slut of a girl he's reseen, he will think about his best friends cock being in the same mouth that he kisses her with. I told him this but like any other beta he goes "I dont care I'm cool I'm getting sex" Obviously our standards can drop for a lay that we keep to ourselves, but don't make it an ex who went with your best friend.