I’m sure a lot of you have dealt with this. Every girl I hook up with now, I wish she was this old plate/FWB I broke. She was “better” than every other girl I’ve gotten with (hotter, funnier, smarter, no red flags, etc.). I acted needy and beta and pushed her away.

Anyway, I’ve read the sidebar. I understand abundance mentality and all that. But in practice how do you deal with these thoughts that you’ll never get someone as good as her again? I know how bad that line of thinking is, but I can’t help it.

I constantly compare every other girl to her. None of them come close. It could just be my idealized version of her, but she was everything I wanted in a girl. I’m trying my best to move on. Blocked her on everything. But still can’t get these thoughts out of my head.

What’s helped you through this process? Is it just a matter of more time? Did you ever find someone better? I’ve had sex with numerous girls since, but I just wish I was fucking her instead. I hate having these thoughts. I wish they would go away. Any advice on the matter?