Good morning TRP, at least it is morning in Quebec!
I am submitting a field report about the various effects of preselection and abundance in the course of a monogamous relationship and how that can help those of you that are not getting what they want from their Main dish.
My story is that of a 4 year LTR which began one college night when I lost my V-card to one of the cute girls in my biology class. She was hot, she was horny and she was all over me, I was the typical A-class Beta; A white knight, A shoulder to cry on, multiple non-sexual female aquaintances and on my way to a great paying job, but I had managed to get a girl under my sheets.
However, as time went on, the frequency of our intimate life was declining, atttributed to the fact that she was too "stressed", too "overworked" to have sex with me. Being the Bluepilled beta that I was, I let this slide in order to get my bi-montly sex.
Yes. You heard me correctly. I was getting sex every two months and even considered that normal at one point, from all the hamstering that was going on in her little wheel. I obviously ended up chatting up the girlfriend of one of my friends, because I sensed a mutual interest (in retrospect, not the best choice, but he was a dick to her and not in a great RP way) and we really hit it up. She would call me and tell me how much she wanted me, but I was a loyal beta and never did anything other than sleep with my girlfriend the very rare times that she woulld give in to my begging (pathetic).
Over the course of the next two years, this would go on and nothing would really change, that is, until I discovered lifting and subsequently, TRP. In the last eight months, applying what I learn here in day to day interactions have gotten me more positive reactions than in the entirety of my life.
I have lost 40 pounds (I didnt look fat, but I was overweight) and have put on some serious muscle, making almost all my shirts muscle shirts. I have stopped succumbing to all of my girlfriend's littlest wishes and desires and have outright told her to fuck off sevral times. I let girls hit on me in front of her without giving a fuck about them or her and I have told her about the girl who could become a plate in a single spin. I let her read all my messages, because IDGAF and she is terrified that girls in all of my friend groups are trying to hit on me and invite me over. I even go to those occasions to bring the dread game to a whole new level. Disclaimer: I would never cheat, because I think that undermines your ability to control yourself and be loyal as a man, and those are qualities that any good man should have, but convincing her that I can is the best aphrodisiac.
Since all this began, I have not had to ask for sex even once, she comes to me almost every night begging for it, sometimes even mutiple times a day and I even tell her I am not in the mood every once and a while. I will continue eating fit and being fit and make every woman wish I was theirs.
Thank you for reading, do not forget that the ultimate goal of this sub is self betterment and become better men.
TL;DR: Typical Male sexless beta becomes desirable alpha by lifting and working on abundance and pre-selection, who'da guessed?
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