Long time lurker, first time poster. I was on a three year women drought and since successfully swallowing the red pill I've hooked up several times with four different women in the last two months. Here is a short list of stuff I've gleaned from this subreddit that has helped tremendously:
•\tDon’t come into anything with expectations. You’re just here to “chill” and have a good time, wherever that takes you.
•\tWork the room; every conversation has value; don’t fixate on one person or group. Don’t try to impress anyone.
•\tTouch and go; always give girls breathing room (sometimes this can backfire with other guys in the mix)
•\tPre-party-pump at the gym helps confidence
•\tAlways try to bring a crew to fall back on or help you out
•\tDress nice, but never formal. Never look like you’re trying too hard.
•\tIt’s always best to have something to do vs. just regular conversation.
•\tPopular topics: School, jobs, family, mutual friends, local events, sports, hobbies
•\tRemember, if you’re not having fun, you don’t have to be there.
•\tIt’s not your job to impress people or carry the conversation. Keep your words high value and don’t ramble. Silence is okay if you don’t feel like they’re contributing and sometimes they may have something they want to talk about.
•\tNever catch feelings; never get serious; always be fun, light, and airy.
•\tIf you’ve been feeling socially awkward, just keep faking confidence and trying until it comes natural. Give it three weeks, it will!!!
•\tSpin plates. Talk to as many girls as you can. Everyone else is doing the same thing. Don’t be possessive.
•\tBe self deprecating at times and humble to keep from seeming cocky, but never make yourself look weak. You can make yourself look brooding when you’ve gotten to know a girl, but never weak.
•\tDon’t be too agreeable; never say more when you can say less
•\tLeave most statements short and direct without needless explanation when explanation can be inferred
•\tNever laugh or smile to gain approval. Your approval should never be extended for free.
•\tHonesty and directness at the right time is the name of the game.
•\tEscalate, escalate, and escalate. Don’t ask permission with words
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