Brief explanation. I've been living in Asia for the past few years. Spending my time in in South Korea and Japan. When living in either country I find my self going to the other on vacations.

This past weekend I met up with a Korean dude I've known since we were kids, met his guy friends and we went out to drink and eat for the night. Typical night for the natives. While out, they started asking about the differences between girls; American, Korean and Japanese. Blah Blah Blah. Then they start talking about how they deal with girls.

Basically, they were discussing using dread game and other simple techniques that we talk about her, openly in a bar full of people. However those are everyday topics that no one is "shamed" for over there. Something that is always refreshing to see vs what I am constantly seeing here about how the indoctrinated men and feminist women attack anyone who talks about how to pick up and manage their women.

On this same trip, met up with a Japanese girl living in Korea that I picked up last time I was on vacation there. At some point she goes into explaining how not too long ago, some guy tried to pick her up. He went about it in a very submissive way, quiet voice away from the group and trying to not attract much attention to himself. Or as she put it, very unmanly. And went off to explain how guys who don't act like men are quite unappealing.

Now to compare this with what I see around here, this would be the equivalent to a girl saying, oh but he just "didn't excite me" or "he was too nice" rather than understanding why they didn't like a certain approach they dance around the topic with other words.

Another girl I know here in Japan was talking about how she's aware of "game" and yet, can't help but play it. Talking about how she understands how it works, and what people are doing, and yet that's what is attractive.

Basically, it's refreshing to see how people do understand how interactions work and be free to discuss things with those around you without worrying about people yelling at you for "manipulation" or "misogyny"