Don't be me - I got cucked!

MTCicero8 · 2019-01-01T14:40:00+00:00

Is a chick you fuck in her car right after meeting her marriage material? Not trying to be a prick but she sounds better suited for fucking than marriage. Her recent behavior seems to support that.

Nergaal · 2019-01-01T13:11:11+00:00

I picked her up at a coffee shop and fucked her in her car the day after we met

Doesn't sound like very good LTR material

BluepillProfessor · 2019-01-01T14:32:31+00:00

My advice is to find a younger, better model.quick, then another, and another. Then when the cuck wife gets tossed off the cc on her face you can plate her without a problem or care in the world.

BobbyPeru · 2019-01-01T15:04:07+00:00

1) you vetted poorly

2) PUA without frame often just leads to ONEitis.

3) you were beta bux to her

Mangasbzo7 · 2019-01-01T15:14:24+00:00

I picked her up at a coffee shop and fucked her in her car the day after we met

You're not the first she did that with. You will not be the last. She wasn't wife material back then and now you have the proof.

3legsbetter · 2019-01-02T04:55:34+00:00

100 comments in less than 24hrs, mostly people shitting on the woman for being a hoe and comforting Billy Beta. What the hell /r/marriedredpill?

rAFCdadHUSBAND · 2019-01-01T22:51:40+00:00

You were not "thoroughly red pilled" you just thought you were.

You willingly gave away power to a woman.

It is entirely possible that you are still quite beta. Have you read 48 laws of power recently, and a bunch of times?

I also was entirely BP at that age and made the same mistake, I'm now 40 and the mission to erase beta traits is not complete. So Please don't feel judged or criticised...

LouElmo · 2019-01-01T10:45:14+00:00

No criticism just my experience. AWALT is all I can say. Having been through the ringer with women more than once I learned not to trust them. Once you let your guard down with them you’re toast. The problem I see with game is that you are still working for pussy and work requires time, energy and resources. At some point you have to rest and that means dropping your guard. Once you do you are done as she will see that as some sort of weakness and away she goes. True freedom comes from stopping the pussy worship and reigning in the desire for it and then directing that energy and time on bettering yourself and taking care of yourself. Good luck.

Drummerboy860 · 2019-01-01T15:25:57+00:00

Ehh...maybe you made wrong moves as a husband, maybe you didn't.

Maybe she was just a whore.

You're still young; get back out there and find some ladies.

Bearman637 · 2019-01-01T12:50:40+00:00

Easy come, easy go.

boom_bostic · 2019-01-01T19:35:14+00:00

Financially, how do you see yourself coming out of this? Is it a no fault or are y’all taking it through the court system? I am always interested in seeing how current & future assets get split in marriages without children. In my case, I had to pay her half equity in my home that I owned before her. I also had to split my 401k & make alimony payments for 2 years. She was broke when I met her. I helped put her through 6 years of school. I used a little raw over the whole deal but I now view it as a good investment. She helped make me the man I am today.

BirdManBrrrr · 2019-01-01T15:12:01+00:00

You, like me, vetted our hot wives poorly and had a short lived marriage. Consider yourself blessed it only took 1.5 years to realize how much of a fuckup you are and for all this shit to go down. My first year of marriage was complete hell and finding this place arguably saved my life. We didn't make it to 2, nor did we have kids either.

File, find a way to protect your income and assets, and move on. Depending on her temperament and ego it could be easy, hell, or both. Keep your shit together and manage it accordingly; depending on your jurisdiction and her agreeableness in the matter you need to be extremely strategic how you play the game with her and get to the finish line with as little drama and loss of assets as possible. See Red-Curious' posts on divorce on the sidebar. Either way, you'll make it out of the end of the process with a golden opportunity for a new life on your terms.

The question is: What do you do now? We can all tell you "lift and sidebar" all day long, but how much do you want to unfuck yourself truly? That's what you have to decide for yourself.

red-sfpplus · 2019-01-01T17:08:51+00:00

I get its a new year and all, but I am ashamed at all the brothers ITT saying a chick that fucks on the first date is not LTR material.

Yall are showing your cognitive dissonance something fierce.

If OP was not a fag who has the body of a concentration camp prisoner he should have been able to keep her interest.

But hey, its easy to jump of the woman for being a woman and gloss over the fact that OP is a fucking nerd with no lifts no body and clearly no game.

SteelToeShitKicker · 2019-01-01T17:04:29+00:00

No kids.So I just found out my (now) ex-wife has been cheating on me for the past 5 months.

That is how I met my current wife - I picked her up at a coffee shop and fucked her in her car the day after we met (I was 25 at the time, she was 21). I am now filing for divorce after 1.5 years marriage (together for 5 years total).

Your post isn't exactly clear. Did you get divorced and remarried already? Please tell me no.

But yeah, I agree with the other posters, picking up a chick and fucking in a car doesn't exactly sound like marriage material. How many other red-flags did you miss?

That said, I don't know that this makes you a cuck. IMHO, if you stayed married while your wife was fucking other dudes, that makes you a cuck. This just makes you a dumbass or maybe naive.

FoxShitNasty83 · 2019-01-01T10:39:10+00:00

Your post history sucks

framelessglasses · 2019-01-01T16:46:38+00:00

In other news.... PUA is not Red Pill.

[deleted] · 2019-01-02T13:22:57+00:00

You made a mistake in vetting poorly, but at least you don't have any kids with her. Just be glad you found out now while getting out is still easy.

31 and single, no children, with a solid income and red pill aware... you'll be fine.

Amiksthrowaway · 2019-01-02T20:59:22+00:00

Yeah yeah.

Here's the real question. How many of her friends have you fucked so far?

If zero, you have work to do.

Considering you're already running to the divorce lawyers, I'm assuming you tipped your hand about knowing what she was up to already?

trpim · 2019-01-01T10:52:31+00:00

I am new around here, but I am not sure PUA = game = being red pilled...

I think we can all learn more.

Mangasbzo7 · 2019-01-01T23:29:59+00:00

Duuuude how you gonna marry a bitch that basically let you smash on the first date

innominating · 2019-01-01T10:42:32+00:00

You have given us little to criticize.

Except, do you even lift? You are a small man, and it is hard to hold a 8.5 in orbit unless you’re a 9.5 and it is hard for a man 5’8” 155 to be a 9.5.

Bitches don’t care too much about how smart you are. PHD can equal nerd. 126k a year is barely middle class. All that’s beta bucks anyway.

Provide more details about how you lost your “game principles” and what actions losing them brought about in you in your opinion.

Also, how did you find out your wife took strange cock, what actions did you take as a result?

ParaXilo · 2019-01-01T17:04:17+00:00

I'd say dodged a bullet.

Good luck.

Gloworm02 · 2019-01-01T16:36:17+00:00

As a woman I’d say your mistake was in marrying a hoe. Some women can't be faithful most can.

Your criteria for a wife was disproportionately based on superficial qualities and you ended up with a superficial thot. An empty vase. Good women don't spend as much time on clothes and makeup.

Also, remember that you attracted a thot, and we're attracted to a thot. As long as your own character (or lack there of) is a magnet for thots this will keep happening to you.

icemanthrowaway123 · 2019-01-01T18:44:26+00:00

What's alimony gonna look like?

lamamadecocori · 2019-01-02T05:14:37+00:00

Im sorry for what you are going through. You’ll meet the right person, you have your entire life ahead of you.

Fogghhat · 2019-01-15T03:54:06+00:00

You don’t mention it, but what was the plan for kids? Seen the situation where the woman is looking at 30 and her man shows no interest in kids so she bugs out. Could result in a tattoo, or interest in religion, or a marathon, or some strange. But it always fucks with women.

Can we all just agree to stop getting married until we’re ready to have kids, like, right away?

MaxamillionGrey · 2019-01-01T16:04:07+00:00

Look man. If you were a good guy, and she cheated on you it's because shes a weak bitch.

It's not that you weren't man enough. You go out and find you another woman who respects herself, and a woman you respect.

We eint have to be assholes to get women.

Your mistake was putting a ring on someone who let you fuck her outside the first day you met.

That's it.

suprathepeg · 2019-01-01T15:15:43+00:00

PUA =\\= MRP

Sidebar, lift and learn.

coachdad8 · 2019-01-01T23:00:55+00:00

Or you could ask her to stick around and have an open marriage.

Title	Don't be me - I got cucked!
Author	bonjarno65
Upvotes	78
Comments	164
Date	January 1, 2019 10:29 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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