For the last couple of weeks I’ve been very busy and working late at work as a couple of hard deadlines approach. I let the wife know it was going to be this way, and it occurs from time to time in my career. She knows this. I am very focused on making sure everything goes down as planned during these times.

Side note - she is 39 and two months pregnant with our 4th.

Yesterday she sent a long email about how I have changed, I’m not the man she married, she misses the old me that would share my feelings, she is scared about the pregnancy, blah, blah. (Read: needs comfort and reassurance).

I made sure I was in a good mood when I got home. I always take a few minutes on the drive home to clear my head of work stuff and be fun when I make it home. I come in the house, say hey to everyone and give her a quick kiss. She asks if I’m hungry and heads to the kitchen while I hang with the kids for a few and tuck them into bed.

I go back to the kitchen, grab her and give her a real kiss; she’s all over me. I keep kissing, move to her neck, kissing and biting, finger her with one hand and finger her ass with the other. She immediately starts squirting and comes. I turn her around, push her against the island and fuck her while she’s begging for it, then I fuck her in the ass and finish.

Food got cold, so she re-heated it while I sat down. I told her to come sit by me while I ate. Asked about her day and listened. I addressed the email, and told her that she knows we’ve both been tired, her emotions are all over the place, having another baby doesn’t change anything. We already have three kids. She agreed, happily. When we were done I told her we were going to go lay in bed and watch a show. She was a sweeet little kitten, and I had a great night and ending to the day.

Women want to know you desire them, and the best way to show it is to take them. Always lead, hold frame and give a little comfort as needed.

I’m not posting this to boast. 15 months ago I was a different man. I couldn’t have even had the same outcome and post this a few months ago. But after I swallowed the pill, posts like these were always an encouragement to me. I welcome feedback and discussion.