TL;DR: I recently calculated my “cost per fuck” with my wife. It costs me between $250 - $500 each time I fuck my wife.

How did I get here you ask? I will summarize. I am 38, she is 37 and we have two kids 9 and 8. We have three homes, two of which we rent and I recently went in as a silent partner and purchased a semi-truck to move relocating Doctors around the US. Starting that biz, is what spawned this whole topic, and quite honestly the last few months of anger phase for me.

During my meetings with my lawyer to get the biz partnership setup we did a divorce analysis on my current situation. As it sits, I would 100% get divorce raped and there is little to nothing I can do about it. Texas is a 50/50 state, so my wife would walk away with between $300-450K in cash and prizes, 10 years of CS at $2000 a month and probably 5 years of alimony. Yikes.

So you take those numbers, add them up, divide by how many times on average per week I will fuck my wife over the next 10 years and you get your “cost to fuck” number.

Now, I know what you are going to say – red-sfpplus there is more to marriage than sex! You are right, there is kids, cooking, cleaning etc. But as my kids get older, the value my wife brings to child rearing goes down – quickly I might add. Sure, she cooks, cleans and manages the home, but you know who else does? Chefs, maids and dry cleaners.

Value – what is it and who brings it? Why does she get a cool $500K for being married to me? Did she get all the advanced IT certs I have and college education? Did she get her real estate license? Does she go out and sell projects and do shit to bring home the bacon? Those are value items I bring to the table, not her.

Do I hate my wife? No. I have grown to hate the institution of marriage and am vastly annoyed at myself for falling into the trap when I was 26 and ignorant.

So what do I do? I start to be smarter with money. I do not gift any money to my kids. That starts now. I do not have an estate setup, that starts now. I do not have a “gambling” habit that bleeds cash. That starts now. The kids are old enough and I have started to drop hints that she needs to go back to work. She is starting to look – slowly I might add.

I was 100% faithful to my wife until I was 28 or so. In fact, she was the only woman I slept with till then. Since, then I have been a cheating whore and there have only been a few periods of time where I have been faithful. It’s not that I don’t love her, I just love sex more. There are so many women out there who will fuck me for $0 and the sex is so much better, more exciting and the whole “no strings attached” thing is fantastic when your wife has one big string attached to you.

Does she know? Probably. She suspects I am sure. The last month I have not touched her, and she isn’t stupid. She knows I have to fuck 2-3 times a week, so she can put 2+2 together. She also enjoys the life I provide for her and my kids. We have a good family, I just really like to fuck other women.

Why did I make this post? It has been an interesting few months for me. Between the semi-truck thing, I also consolidated from 2 jobs down to 1 with a really great company, so my personal life gains have been immense. I can’t complain. My wife has received little to no attention from me during that time, because I have been so busy. Both my kids teams won their softball/baseball championships and we started all-stars.

Homework for you? Calculate your “cost to fuck.” Or don’t and save yourself the headache. Think about how much that pussy you put on a pedestal costs you, vs. how easy it can be to fuck one for free.

Extra points? Something I struggle with currently and why I am angry. Figure out a way to not let this type of information bother you. I am a logical, analytical, Type-A personality. Knowing this type of stuff just pisses me off, but there is nothing I can do about the past. Some people would call it extreme negative visualization. How do you look at someone in the eyes, know they will cost you $500K to walk away from because of modern laws and feminism and not get pissed at some level? Working on myself, my goals, lifting and all the other things we preach on here help, but they are not a full cure.

When you figure it out, let me know.

I will end with a twist on a phrase we see here all the time. I hate it, because it was coined by some scorned man, and it directly implies the woman is the prize which is not true. So I am coining a new one.

You are not hers, it is just her turn.