This post is about lingerie, and sluttiness, and your girl and you.

A lot of guys come here asking about how to get their girls to wear lingerie for them, and they complain that their women don't make it a point to look good in the bedroom and all that shit that guys like. I’ve had a lot of success with this, so I figured I’d share what worked for me, why I think it worked and how it can probably help you, especially during these trying holiday times.

Prerequisite reading is this post by /u/thefamilyalpha , pay attention to the part about removing the taboo of talking about sex;, and being attractive, because like the rest of this shit, if you're not, it makes it a lot harder.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5c4a09/create_your_slut/

Part 1

If you've read that post or you've been around long enough, you'll know that accepting women's true slutty nature is part of accepting the red pill. Every woman enjoys being a slut, it just depends on the man she is with and how she is feeling in that moment. The kind of man that women want to be a slut for have been around enough women to know that they enjoy it, and he accepts it. There is a certain level of comfort women have when they are around an attractive and fun guy who just "gets it". They know they can be open and free without judgement because he knows too and doesn't care. You need to unlock this side of your girl, the kind where she can be her slutty self without judgement and jealousy. She might talk about shit or say things that you never expected her to say, but if it isn't in violation of any boundaries, just accept it and take advantage of it, she is opening up. You'll be surprised at what women will say and do around a guy who "gets it". Lately my girls friends have shown me their tits, thongs and talked about how good they can suck dick because they know I’ll be cool and won't jizz in my pants like an 8th grader. It really fucking works if you can handle it.

This leads to the main point of this post:

Lingerie is a gift for her, not for you.

It’s a gift for her because women enjoy acting slutty and turning men on. They get aroused turning guys on as much as we get aroused looking at them, biology made that shit work out fucking perfect. The problem is if you're not attractive or not good at enjoying her being slutty, she won't enjoy turning you on. That’s why you need to accept her, and have fun with her and keep her in the right emotional state, while also being attractive and fuck her well. I know, it’s a lot to think about but you’re a man you can handle it.

You should never ask your woman to dress sexy, look slutty or wear certain things "for you", you're not special, she doesn't owe you shit, and having to ask is sad as fuck.

(Pro-tip: Women want a guy who just fucks. A ripped sex beast who just wants pussy because he is masculine and strong and doesn't give a fuck about much else. This means you have to not give a fuck one way or another if she actually wears lingerie or anything like that. Fuck Beasts don't worry about clothes, or where you are, or any of that shit, so get over it and fuck her anyway.)

Keep it light at first and once you get her comfortable in lingerie and slutty clothes, you can start telling her what you want her to wear and pick out stuff and be more dominant or whatever else you pervs want to do, but it’s important to have a DNGAF attitude and be able to get past it and fuck regardless of the situation. Don't force it or go for it if it will be an extra hassle. Immersion is a big part of the DEVI model from sex god method that you all should know about by now. Having to shut down a rapid escalation so she can change her clothes can kill the mood. I’d rather have hot naked sex than starfish in fishnets. Read the mood of your game and act accordingly. If it will fit and not kill the immersion, go for it, if not, default to FuckBeast mode.

Part 2

How to get her to enjoy it:

Getting your girl to enjoy being slutty for you means that you first must accept her slutty side. This can start with you talking more openly and less judgmentally about sexual stuff, talking more crudely with her about sex or your desires or her desires, and all that other shit. Basically just talk dirty and own it, just don't be weird, keep it fun and try not to come off like a horny beta creep. Tell her what you like about her, tell her what you want her to do or do to you. It is also important that you back all this dirty talk up with an actual ability to fuck well, or at least the frame to handle it if you can't. If you can't go hard in the bedroom like sex god method, then you need to read more. Caveman mode is always good, and if you can make her cum she'll be putty in your hands.

Make her comfortable in her own skin.

You can't judge her if she doesn't look like the girl on the cover. You must be attracted to her how she is, if you don't think your wife is attractive already, this shit probably won't work and it’s your fault anyway. My girl isn't a busty porn-star, but together we stay fit and right and I find her sexy as hell, so if she wants to wear slutty clothes it’s just a bonus to me, but I’m a fuckbeast so I’d smash either way. The point is if your wife or gf puts some slutty clothes on and she doesn't look good, you have to get the fuck over it and fuck her either way and still have a good time without skipping a beat, otherwise you're a faggot for fucking an inferior woman if you have so many fucking options anyway. She will never look as good as the plastic surgery photo-shopped model on the box, so get ready to give some comfort and help her move past it by keeping it light and playful. I honestly don't like fake blonde plastic tittied bimbos so that part wasn't hard for me.

Before your girl will have the guts to put on something she might look terrible in she needs to "feel" as though you are attracted to her and love her and are genuinely attracted to her personality and shit, at least a little bit before she will take the risk {if you're not any of these things to your wife or gf you're wasting your time here}. You do this by spending time with her and being a fun and enjoyable guy. If she thinks you're an attractive person, and you're spending your time with her, she will be more confident in herself. Take this confidence and use it to bring out her slutty side, if she doesn't feel confident taking her clothes off, or burping in front of you, she won't feel confident trying on slutty clothes for you. You don't have to tolerate a gross girl, but learn how to use her raw pure self to make fun and get into her inner self and her inner slutty side. If you want to be with her forever you have to be able to laugh about some awkward or meta shit. The cooler you are the cooler she'll be and the more receptive she'll be to the weird shit you're into. I'm not some one night stand that my girl will never see again, we've been together for over a decade. If she fucks up, it will ruin her life, so make sure you make her feel safe in exploring this shit.

Part 3

FUCK VICTORIA'S SECRET

I used to buy all kinds of slutty outfits and matching sets and satin and lace shit for my girl. I’d go with her to Victoria's Secret and let her pick out whatever and pay $100's for it like a chump. She would never wear that shit, we'd get home and she would put it in a drawer to never be seen again. If I was lucky she would wear nothing or some thong from 5 years ago. After being angry I stopped giving a fuck, accepted my gf's true AWALT nature and started just enjoying her nakedness. I got hotter and she got sluttier, and hotter too. I stopped giving so many fucks and just did what I wanted. She followed my lead but still wasn't slutting it up like I wanted her to. It was around this time that I realized something important that you all should know. My girl won't become a crazy slut on her own, she needs me to lead her there, so, I did that. Maybe it’s because we've been together for over a decade, or she has more to lose than she would with a one night stand, I don't know, but she just wouldn't take that first step unless I took her there with me.

Before I get into how to buy slutty clothes for your girl, I want to talk about the argument of "well, she should buy them on her own if she really wants to impress me". My girl would never buy some of the crazy shit I get for her just because she’s afraid of getting it wrong or looking bad and slut shaming and all that. Again, I’m not a one night stand, we've been together for over a decade and have built a life together. Social and sexual rejection hurts girls 100x worse than it hurts guys, so they are much less likely to take risks. If I get it, she has plausible deniability that I was the one who fucked up and we can both have a laugh because she knows I’m cool enough and have the frame to get over it. Now that she knows what I like, and she knows what she feels comfortable in, she has surprised me many times with some crazy shit I didn't even think she could put on by herself. It's on you to take the first steps.

Just to emphasize...

Victorias Secret is the biggest beta bucks scam i have ever seen in my life.

Buying victorias secret shit for your girl is basically guaranteeing that she will not want to fuck you or wear it for you ever. It is impossible to act like you don't give a fuck while also paying 100 dollars for 3 dollars worth of fabric. Skittles Man wouldn't drop that kind of cash, so why the fuck are you? I would bet my life savings that the Victoria's Secret marketing team has used the term "beta male" at least once in their marketing strategies and probably have a whole marketing team dedicated just to thirsty beta males. Fuck that shit.

The first time after the red pill I bought my girl slutty clothes and outfits I picked out, I got them from discountstripper.com and amazon. I paid the absolute cheapest amount for what I wanted and got like, 10 slutty outfits for 30 bucks. Discountstripper.com was on the box when she opened it and she was pissed off, but realized I obviously didn't care and started laughing and putting it on. I honestly just wanted to see her reaction, she knew I didn't give a fuck if she wore it or not, and that’s why she put it on (I did this shit as a "holiday present" and we had been doing holiday shit and bonding over our shitty families together, so she felt extra close to me, the circumstances definitely made it easier but this will work anytime, as long as you are comfortable being called an asshole and having her be mad at you), but at the end of the day, I didn't care what she thought about it. Best case scenario is she puts it on, worst case scenario is she’s pissed off and I can have fun teasing her while she pouts at me. The asshole card pays off if you know how to play it, just own your shit and don't let her shame you for being a man.

In conclusion, fuck Victoria's Secret. I am in no way affiliated with discountstripper.com, they just have an awesome and hilarious name that worked to my advantage in pissing off my girl. Fuckbeast is a real thing and it should be your default setting, most of the time. SHE has to be in the mood to wear lingerie, not you, because like I said before, it’s a gift for her to enjoy, not you.

Go forth and get freaky, and don't spend too much money on that shit. Good luck bros.

fuckbeast